Showing posts with label sadness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sadness. Show all posts

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Cherish Each Moment

Today I spent the afternoon with a very sad family. A wonderful man lost his fight with life early this morning after running into trouble with a semi, while riding his motorcycle. It is hard to understand why these things happen. One minute you have someone and the next minute you don't. Sometimes life is so mean, especially concerning death. I keep asking why life is so hard.  My wonderfully wise pastor husband can't answer me on this. No one can. This world does not spare any of us from hurt and pain. So all I could do, today, was listen and hug.

Job 4:19


So how much less these bodies composed of mud,
    fragile as moths?
These bodies of ours are here today and gone tomorrow


This uncertainty of life gives us all the more reason to make sure that the ones we love know how special they are to us. As a matter of fact we are to love all of our neighbors, as God does.


The scriptures tell us over and over to love one another...

Romans 12:10

Common English Bible (CEB)
10 Love each other like the members of your family. Be the best at showing honor to each other.

John 13:34

Common English Bible (CEB)
34 “I give you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, so you also must love each other.

Ephesians 4:2

Common English Bible (CEB)
Conduct yourselves with all humility, gentleness, and patience. Accept each other with love,

1 John 4:11

The Message (MSG)
11-12 My dear, dear friends, if God loved us like this, we certainly ought to love each other. No one has seen God, ever. But if we love one another, God dwells deeply within us, and his love becomes complete in us—perfect love!


As we go through this busy life. It can be tough to get chances to love and show love. There is so much on our plates and we are pushing everyday. Love is something we have to choose to do on a daily basis. Asking God to help us with this does make it easier.

As I sat with this sweet wife today, the one thing she could find comfort in was that she was positive that her lost husband had known that he was deeply loved, and she knew the same was true of his love for her. Imagine how much sadder she would be if they hadn't made sure of this each and every day of their lives together. 

I am not trying to be a fatalist but no one can know what a day will bring. Accidents happen, bodies fail, situations change and this world is getting weirder everyday. 

Don't let another day go by without holding tight to the ones you love. Tell them you love them. Show them you love them. Go out to your neighbors and show Christ's love to them too.  

You don't want to wish you had!


Blessings!

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Thirsty?



We just had a wonderful rain shower! What a much needed relief!  




It has been hot and dry for over two weeks. All the flowers, yards and crops have been looking pretty thirsty! 

It happens every summer. There are long streaks of heat and long streaks of no rain. We know it is going to happen, yet when it does we long for the coolness and the rain. We tend to get a little cranky and sad as we look at the dryness all around us.

That is how it is in life. We have periods when everything is going well. The well springs are flowing and life is good. Then wham, dryness hits. The springs dry up and we feel drained, like we have nothing to give and then we feel like no one is giving to us. Everything we try to do is hard and frustrating and than a deep sadness sets in.

In 1 Samuel 1, Hannah felt like she was in a dry land.   She had not had a child and was saddened and frustrated by this. In her barrenness she cried out to God for a child. 

1 Samuel 1:10-11

Common English Bible (CEB)
10 Hannah was very upset and couldn’t stop crying as she prayed to the Lord. 11 Then she made this promise: “Lord of heavenly forces, just look at your servant’s pain and remember me! Don’t forget your servant! Give her a boy! Then I’ll give him to the Lord for his entire life. No razor will ever touch his head.”


David had tough times too. He was thirsty and longing for God help save him from his enemies....



Psalm 42:2

Common English Bible (CEB)
My whole being thirsts for God, for the living God.
    When will I come and see God’s face?


Psalm 63:1

The Message (MSG)

God—you’re my God!
    I can’t get enough of you!
I’ve worked up such hunger and thirst for God,
    traveling across dry and weary deserts.




Hannah and David knew, as we should know, that our God is the one to turn to in our times of dryness. He promises to be there for us and to walk with us through everything we are going through.

He answered Hannah's prayer....

1 Samuel 1:20

The Message (MSG)

20 Before the year was out, Hannah had conceived and given birth to a son. She named him Samuel, explaining, “I asked God for him.”


And look how He changed David's sadness into rejoicing....


2 Samuel 22:2-4
The Message (MSG)

2- God is bedrock under my feet,
the castle in which I live,
my rescuing knight.
My God—the high crag
where I run for dear life,
hiding behind the boulders,
safe in the granite hideout;
My mountaintop refuge,
he saves me from ruthless men.


4 I sing to God the Praise-Lofty,
and find myself safe and saved.


Just like our late afternoon showers have brought about a freshness and much needed moisture to our area, God will take care of us in our dry times. He always keeps his promises. Read what the Psalmist writes about this......



Psalm 146:3The Message (MSG)
3- Don’t put your life in the hands of experts
who know nothing of life, of salvation life.
Mere humans don’t have what it takes;
when they die, their projects die with them.
Instead, get help from the God of Jacob,
put your hope in God and know real blessing!
God made sky and soil,
sea and all the fish in it.
He always does what he says—
he defends the wronged,
he feeds the hungry.
God frees prisoners—
he gives sight to the blind,
he lifts up the fallen.
God loves good people, protects strangers,
takes the side of orphans and widows,
but makes short work of the wicked.


I hope you are all going through great times, of sweet gentle showers, of blessings in you life right now! But if you are in a dry arid time, please remember that you do not have to go through this alone. Reach out to our Creator and Savior. He will bring you peace. He will bring you to an oasis of coolness and shade.  He wants to help you with any issue you are dealing with and will help see you through. He loves you with all His being and wants nothing more than to see you happy. 

Doesn't that make you smile just thinking about it!

Blessings Sweet Friends!!